THIRTY-FIVE. (57 Ways to Beat Loneliness & Depression)
Garbage in Garbage out
When I first started learning to use a computer in school, the instructor told us about the magical way the computer worked:
Garbage in = Garbage out
If you put in the wrong thing into the computer, you get the wrong results.
Our minds are a gazillion times more complex than regular computers, but the same premise remains, we have to be careful what we put into our systems.
There are times when I get really upset and all these curse words bubble up from inside. Keep in mind that I don’t use curse words, I believe that only lazy people curse because they would rather not take the time and the energy to express themselves more clearly – but that is a discussion for another time. And sometimes the curse words that come to my mind are so creative and so unlike anything you may hear regularly, that when I sit down to think about it I realize I heard the curse words in a movie (sometimes many many years ago).
For example: who told you that you have to close your eyes when you kiss, or that the only way to avoid panty lines is wearing a thong, or that it’s normal to get sick every time flu season hits, or that it’s okay to curse people out when you get angry? We learn from what we surround ourselves with, and we never forget what we take in.
Don’t think you can watch all the romantic movies, soap operas, tv shows and read all the romantic books out there and not be affected. 99% of the romantic stuff out there is garbage…and what you put in always comes out…uglier.
Remember life is meant to be lived freely.