We spend a lot of time running away from pain. I for one hate pain…I’ve always hated pain since I was a child. I remember that I would complain about every pain I had to my mother. It could have been something small or something large, but immediately I felt discomfort I would go running …
Category Archives: singleness
It's all temporary
Sometimes I forget that it’s all temporary. If I had known it would be the last letter or the last phone call I would get from my uncle, maybe I would have cherished it a bit more. If I had known it would be the last time I would hang out with some of my friends, …
Life is not fair
When my ex (the one I wanted to marry) ended up getting married years before I did, I was angry and bitter. I felt that God wanted me to end the relationship, and since I (capital I) did the hard work of ending the relationship, I felt that I deserved to be married and happy …
What it feels like to be married
so I was reading a blog post the other day about what it feels like to be married, and it was interesting. They talked about fights, shouts, slammed doors, etc. that was interesting to me… My single friends often ask me what it feels like to be married, and it’s hard to explain, because sometimes …
I have faith it will work out well
My gift in life is to encourage people. It’s always been that way. Whatever I do, I do to encourage people. I feel like there are just too many discouragers in the world telling us who we cannot be or what we cannot do, and I refuse to be one of them. I’ve been privileged …
No obligation to finish the movie
The first movie my boo and I watched together at the movie theater (when he was still trying to charm his way into my heart) was a Ghanian movie about relationships, cheating etc. We picked the movie because by the time we got there, this was the only movie that seemed as if it would …
Shout Out to my boo for life
Yo yo yo shout out to all my peeps! This post is dedicated to my boo… LOL I know it doesn’t even sound like me… Well I just wanted to take this time to apologize for not a single post in the past few weeks… **shame face** But you know how that goes sometimes… The …
Womanhood – dropping balls
Do you hear that? Yeah that sound… that’s the sound of balls fallling… I attended an event for professional women the other day, and they talked about how as women, you constantly have to juggle multiple balls – family, work, church, friends etc. And sometimes you will drop some of the balls… That was a …
44- he should always let you have your way
hey y’all – It’s time for a new series, that I plan to turn into a book… We would like to talk about relationship fallacies that are ruining our relationships, and how we can fix them… I’m still working on a title, so if you have any suggestions I would appreciate it :-). This is …
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5- He should like you all the time
hey y’all – It’s time for a new series, that I plan to turn into a book… We would like to talk about relationship fallacies that are ruining our relationships, and how we can fix them… I’m still working on a title, so if you have any suggestions I would appreciate it :-). This is …